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5.27.2009

25 Things to Love about ADHD

Yay, Mason and I finally get the recognition we deserve :)

1. Insomnia makes for more time to stay up and surf the net!
2. The drive of HYPERFOCUS.
3. Resiliency.
4. A sparkling PERSONALITY.
5. Generosity with money, time, and resources.
6. INGENUITY. 7. A strong sense of what is FAIR.
8. Willingness to take a RISK.
9. Making far-reaching analogies that no one else understands.
10. SPONTANEITY.
11. Possessing the mind of a Pentium—with only 2 MBs of RAM.
12. Pleasant and constant surprises due to finding clothing(or money or spouses) you had forgotten about.
13. Being FUNNY.
14. Being the last of the ROMANTICS.
15. Being a good conversationalist.
16. An innately better understanding of intuitive technologies, such as computers or PDAs.
17. Honestly believing that ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE.
18. Rarely being satisfied with the status quo.
19. Compassion.
20. Persistence.
21. Joining the ranks of artists, musicians, entrepreneurs, and other creative types.
22. Always being there to provide a different PERSPECTIVE.
23. Willingness to fight for what you believe in.
24. Excellence in MOTIVATING OTHERS.
25. Being highly organized, punctual, and generally responsible (OK, so I lied!).

5.24.2009

Raising My Boys 101

As much as I would love it for my boys to have come with a handbook, I do enjoy figuring out how to handle certain situations. For example, my oldest, Mason, was diagnosed with a pretty nasty case of ADHD - with emphasis on the "H". We fought putting him on medication for half of the school year, but when the school started using the word "expulsion" Nick and I decided that maybe the medication would help give him a better quality of life and a chance at having a successful Kindergarten year. At that point we felt totally defeated, but we tried the medication.

After 3 months, the teachers were loving it and Nick and I were ready to take him off of it. Sure, he was doing well in school, but he had become another person. He was depressed and had lost all interest in the things he used to love. I saw my vibrant, creative little boy turn into a withdrawn, timid little zombie.

Again, I felt totally defeated, we were back to square one. I did hours and hours of research on ADHD. I read articles online and books, I knew there had to be another answer. After battling Postpartum Depression with meds and then turning to herbs and suppliments with great success, just knew there must be some kind of natural remedy that would work. After days of research I put together what I felt would be an effective combination of vitamins, minerals and herbs that we were going to try. I knew it was going to take several months before we saw any results, but I was certain that this was going to be much better for my son and my family.

I kept a weekly journal of his progress and it was slow progress. The first month there wasn't much change that we could see. He was still geting positive marks for about 30% of his day, which means the rest of the day was spent out of his seat, disrupting the class and throwing tantrums. Month 2 he was actually having a few good days a week. About 3 out of 5 days he was getting 50%-60%. Now, here we are at the end of month 3 and I am happy to report that Mason is consistently behaving for 70%-80% of his day. The teachers are saying that he is becoming more aware of the rules and making effort to follow them, which means that he is gaining the ability to control his impulses. It is amazing, he is doing such a great job and I am so proud of him for trying so hard to do better.

As I said before, it would be so much easier if there was a user manual for how to handle situations such as these, but since there isn't, I am enjoying every minute of writing my own manual:)

My Mason

5.21.2009

Everybody was kung foo fighting

So, I decided for Nick's birthday (actually 4 days after his birthday) i would take a crack at making some sushi. After the trial run, which I just finished eating, I am confident things are going to go pretty well. I have had a bunch of people curious about the method and so I figured I'd go ahead and post my recipes.

MOST IMPORTANTLY:
Sticky Rice

2 1/4 C short grain glutinous white rice (aka Sushi Rice)
3 C water
1/4 C white sugar
1/4 C rice vinegar
1 1/4 tsp. salt

1. Prepare Rice: Put rice into a large bowl and cover with water. Rub the rice between your hands until the water turns a milky color. Drain rice and repeat this 4-6 times until you can see the rice through 3" of water.
2. Soak Rice: After draining rice, put it into a sauce pan and add 3 C of cool water. Allow rice to soak for 30 minutes.
3. Mix Ingredients: While rice is soaking, combine sugar, salt and vinegar in a bowl and stir until all the dry ingredients are dissolved. Set aside.
4. Cook Rice: After 30 min, cover rice and turn heat to high. Once the water starts to boil, reduce to low and simmer for 15 minutes. After 15 minutes, remove rice from the heat and let stand for 5 minutes.
5. Mix Rice: Scrape cooked rice into a large mixing bowl and add the vinegar mixture. Mix until the mixture is evenly distributed.
6. Cool Rice: Allow rice to cool to room temp and then use it as a side dish or in a sushi roll.
**Make sure you wet your hands before handling this rice, they don't call it sticky rice for nothing.

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THE SAUCE:
Spicy Mayo
1/2 C Mayo (the real stuff or Kewpie mayo if you can get ahold of it)
2 T Habenero Sauce

VARIOUS ROLLS
Philadelphia Roll (1 roll)

8" lengths of 1/4" square cream cheese
2 ounces Lox (smoked salmon)
8" length of 1/4" square cucumber
Toasted Nori (sushi grade seaweed) sheets
1/2 cup Sushi rice

1. Prepare Nori Sheet: First place one full sheet of sushi nori on your bamboo mat, shiny side down. If you don't have a bamboo mat you can use a piece of waxed paper.
2. Cover Lightly With Sushi Rice: Lightly cover the nori sheet with your prepared sushi rice - leaving the remaining inch and a half of nori bare lengthwise away from you.
3. Place Toppings Lengthwise: Place your toppings lengthwise at center of your rice.
4. Start Rolling: Fold your mat over, centering your ingredients with respect to your rice sheet to the far edge of your rice. With even pressure, tighten your roll by pressing and pulling on your mat. Make sure your roll is tight or it will fall apart.
5. Slice & Serve: Slice your Philadelphia Roll into eight pieces. And that's it — the perfect Philly Roll!
**When you slice the rolls be sure to dip the knife in cold water between each slice to keep rice from sticking to the knife.

Spicy Tuna Roll (4-6 rolls)
4-6 Nori Sheets
Prepared sushi rice

Tuna Mixture
1/2 Lb Sashimi grade tuna
1 T Mayo
1/2 T Habenero sauce

1. Prepare Tuna: Chop tuna until you have an almost paste like, even consistency.
2. Mix Filling: Mix tuna, mayo and habenero until all ingredients are evenly distributed.
3. Roll Sushi: Follow the same instructions as the Philly Roll.

Kani Salad
Shredded imitation crab meat
1 cucumber, peeled and seeds removed julienned into 1/8"x2" strips
1 or 2 tsp mayo (to taste)
1/2 tsp Habenero sauce (to taste)

Combine all ingredients in a bowl and serve.

Well, that's what I have for now. Once you get the rice cooked correctly and the rolling technique down the rest is easy. You can put whatever you want in the sushi. We are also going make some California rolls so Mason can have some too. Avocado, crab and cucumber.

You can also roll these inside out (rice on the outside) by flipping the rice covered nori sheet before placing the filling in the roll.

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I'm Baaack....

So it has been FOREVER since I posted last. The Studio and kids have been keeping me very busy. I decided to turn my studio blog into a photo blog and start updating my personal blog again. There are many journeys beggining for Nick and I and I felt it would be nice to document some of it for the world to see :) If anyone cares.

First, my husband has decided that since he is now 26 years old (or "almost dead" as he likes to say) he should probably start thinking about getting healthy..or healthier. Sitting at a desk for 12+ hours a day can really have an effect on your overall health and well being. So the protein shakes and workouts have begun. He is really sticking with it, so far, and I am really proud of him for getting up at 6am to go workout before work today. Being the awesome wife that I am, I got up and made him a peanut butter and banana protein shake...which was much bette than the protein powder and water combo he was trying to choke down before I got up to save the day. Lol.

Then of course there are my kids - which at this point I believe are plotting to take over the world... or at least my home. Daiden is on the move (booooo) and Mason is really shaping up to be a great kid. I am trying to be a better mommy and wife, so basically I am trying to keep the laundry and dishes clean and feed my family at a decent time - not sure how it is working out so far since I am currently sitting next to 2 big piles of unfolded laundry.

Well, here goes another attempt at documenting the tiny things of a grateful stay at home mommy's life that make me wanna say "man, my life rocks!" :)